Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Tim

Yesterday I starting signing the song "one girl one boy" you know all know how it goes..."One Boy, one girl two hearts beating wildly to put it mildly it was love at first sight. He smiled she smiled and they knew right away this was the day they've waited for all their lives. For a moment the whole world...." anyway So I changed up a few things and said One Tim one Tesha and when it got to the part where it said love at first sight Tim said "at least it was for me." Which in his case is actually true. He liked me from the moment he met me. So I asked him not fully thinking how true it was "How do you like loving me for half you life already?" Then I thought about it later and it's true. We met in 6th grade 12 years. It amazes me that he has loved me that long and amazes me that he will spend most of his life loving me. Then after that we have the rest of eternity together. It's crazy to think about. Tim has been a great person in my life in all stages of our relationship, friendship, dating, being engaged, marriage. He has been the most constant person (outside of my family) in my life. He has been the one person that has always been there for me. He is one of the only people I compeletly trust. It is nice to have someone I can trust with anything and trust with everything. I have lost a lot of close friend. Although I may still be in contact with them. They don't want to be close to me. For along time I would beat myself up that I didn't have a best friend. Someone I could go to for anything but I have had one all along. When everyone else has hated me Tim never has. When I came out of an abusive relationship he was there. Through thick and thim he has never judged me. When most people would have. If something happens and our plans get canecelled he rolls with the punches. He puts up with my mood swings and my over protective parenting. (Yes I am admitting it leave it at that and don't rub it in). I feel like I am the smartest person in the world for choosing him to be my husband. When people around him are doing stupid stuff he doesn't. On the rigs he could of gained a bad habbit. But instead he read the book of Mormon and decided that he wouldn't sware so he could be and example to others. When family members start getting into bad habbits he gets mad and thinks they are stupid. Although he still loves them he really hates there chocies. When he was in training for the air force he would go out with all his buddies. They would all get smashed but Tim wouldn't even have a single drink. He gets up at 4:45 M-T is gone 12hrs (includes travel time) just to support his family. He has strong family ties and he know that is whats the most important thing in life. Whenever I am sad or mad he always finds away to make to laugh or smile. There are some days that i think he is a big kid and he gets annoying. But I can't get enough of him. He is my once in a life time find and i love him more than anything. I am excited to be able to say I have loved him most of my life time like he can me. I want to show him and give him in return the love he has always given me. TRUE LOVE!!! I just wanted him to know publicly how much everything means to me. How right now I don't see how life could get any better because he loves me and that will never change. I love you Tim!!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

This is an awesome post!! Tim is an awesome guy. I have always been jealous of your relationship with him. I always wanted to be close to you like Tim. (well maybe not THAT close. he he he!) But you know what I mean. You guys are perfect for each other. You guys have different strengths and weaknesses that work together to strengthen each other. I have loved being good friends with both of you. You guys are a way cute couple!! I remember being at your wedding and thinking how happy I was for you for finding such an awesome guy. Yes, Timmy can be annoying, but without that it just wouldn't be Tim.

All becasue two people fell in love

All becasue two people fell in love
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